Bethel splits from his older boyfriend and settles into life in Chicago. He knows he wants to start some kind of film project but has zero clue what it's actually about. He narrows down a pool of Grindr matches and invites around twelve guys to meet him face to face. These conversations kick off in Bethel's studio and wander through a ton of territory, how Grindr has reshaped their whole approach to dating, their libidos fading over time, their sexual tastes, the subcultures they're part of, and their thoughts on art in general. The energy mimics a first date almost exactly, flirtatious, disjointed, awkward at times, then suddenly turning sharp and openly sexual. From there it gets even more experimental, with each guy handed a kind of script drawn from these encounters, digging into attraction, desire, sex, and closeness. Randomly, we also get cut ins of Bethel on the phone with his mom. She's warm but wary, and she keeps pushing him to think through the ethics of what he's doing and what he's actually hoping to get out of it. She brings up the risk of broadcasting his private life so publicly, possibly overstepping boundaries with these men, and openly wonders if the whole thing is really just narcissism dressed up as art. At some point his ex boyfriend resurfaces too, and this attempt to patch things up understandably knocks Bethel completely off balance.
There's a genuinely interesting concept buried in here about gay love and sex, but the execution just never delivers on it. A handful of the guys share thoughts that actually land, but most of that gets cut or sidelined entirely, and the editing itself is a mess, stitched together with random self indulgent narration and still photos thrown in. The mom pushes back hard on the pretentiousness of the whole thing, yet the filmmaker basically shrugs off any real criticism, hers included. On the whole this film just feels pointless and empty. If I'm being honest the only part that actually worked for me was the first five minutes, where Bethel talks about falling for an older man. If he'd built just that into a tight twenty five minute short, it would've been a far stronger piece of work. As it stands, this was just bad. (2/10)

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