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A Man Who Defies the World of BL Final (Japanese Series)

This final season keeps leaning on the same old formula, and once again never actually gives its main character any real sense of closure. Quick refresher, our lead is a university student who spends all his time frantically trying to dodge romance. No matter what he does though, the universe just keeps shoving him into one intimate situation after another. A lot of these setups are lifted straight from classic love story cliches. The whole point is watching him come up with creative ways to escape his fate and avoid falling for another guy. This season's still got six episodes, each around 23 minutes, and every episode features two of these tropey flags that could tip him into a BL storyline. Season three left off with Mob possibly caught in a love triangle between his ex Kikuchi and Hatano, the younger guy who's still a minor. Turns out that was all a dream sequence, but what hasn't changed is that Hatano is still into him. The first four episodes basically run through ev...

The Butch Factor (Documentary)

This documentary is trying to break down the old tired stereotypes and show that gay men can look like anything, blue collar guys, cops, tough athletes, rodeo cowboys, gym bros who could scare anyone just by walking in the room. It brings in a bunch of different guys talking about what being masculine actually means to them.

The guys they interview are pretty honest about their sexuality and how people see them. They talk about the usual butch gay categories, leather guys, bears, rodeo riders, muscle guys, construction workers, truck drivers, cops, athletes, and mix that in with stuff like homophobia, being stereotyped, being called too feminine or too polished, and fashion. A lot of them say they feel kind of alone trying to fit into gay culture as masculine guys, like they don't belong to the "normal" gay scene either. Some talk about just not caring about pop culture or fashion or divas like other gay guys do, worrying if they'd be accepted in a typical tough guy job, and having a hard time accepting themselves because they grew up in a macho household. All these stories basically come back to the same thing, how society decides what counts as a real man and what counts as a real gay man. The film also throws in a couple of clearly more feminine gay guys, but it feels a little awkward, and I'm honestly not sure if the point was to say masculine gay guys are somehow better.

The doc also shows where these guys actually feel at home in gay culture, like gay sports teams, a corrections officer, and guys who grew up thinking real men just aren't gay. It also gets into the mental side of masculinity a bit, like how gay men think about it and try to live up to it, and how a lot of it is just something society made up. It flips things around too, some of the more butch guys in the film actually say the feminine guys they know are tougher and stronger for just being themselves without hiding it. The heart's in the right place here, but the doc gets repetitive after a while. It just keeps circling the same point over and over before it finally ends.

Bottom line, good message, honest guys, but it repeats itself way too much. (4.5/10)

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