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Soul Mate (Japanese Series)

Is this technically a gay show? Even after getting through the whole thing, that's still kind of tricky to answer. There's never any physical intimacy shown between the two leads, not even a single kiss. What it gives you instead is something that goes way deeper than that. It traces an emotional bond that spans a full decade between two guys who are both dealing with their own baggage, and what they share basically amounts to being soulmates. The story moves across Japan, South Korea, and Berlin. Honestly, whether people want to call what they have a romantic relationship or not doesn't really matter to me. A relationship doesn't need a label like boyfriends attached to it to actually mean something. And closeness doesn't need to be physical to feel genuine. What this show captures is something quieter but way more powerful, a bond rooted in understanding, respect, and just showing up for each other. Across eight episodes, each running 35 to 45 minutes, this is one...

Brokeback Mountain

Finally, the mother of all gay films. Of course I had seen the film way back when it released on the big screen but I started writing my blog only much later. So, it was in my TODO list to watch the film again, so that I can review it for my blog. Whoever watches or has any slight interest in gay films, knows and has probably even seen this film. I finally got to see the film again with a buddy who is just getting into the world of gay cinema, and what better film than this to onboard him to this wonderful world.

The film begins in 1963, when Ennis and Jack, about 19 years old, get a job tending sheep on Brokeback mountain. Ennis is a boy of very few words. He learned to be guarded and fearful long before he knew what he feared. Jack, who has done some rodeo riding, is a little more outgoing. After some days have passed on the mountain and some whiskey has been drunk, they suddenly and almost violently have sex. Denying the initial incident as one-off thing, slowly the 2 men fall in love with each other and have a wonderful summer up the mountains but its time for reality. Time passes and both men are now married with kids. One day out of blue, Jack decides to visit Ennis, and the passion they both have for each other suddenly reignites surprising them both. The 2 men start having “fishing trips” every few months for a few days so that they can spend some quality time with each other and plan for a possible future. Jack thinks he and Ennis might someday buy themselves a ranch and settle down. Ennis who remembers what he saw as a boy: "This thing gets hold of us at the wrong time and wrong place and we're dead.”. Frustrations increase as the men grow older but one thing never changes for them is their love for each other. Unfortunately one evening, in an accident, Jack dies (which we are told through visual images, might have been a hate crime). Ennis’ world is devastated. He was always lonely but had Jack with him in spirit. He is now all alone with only memories of Jack.

The film is heart-breaking and yet in some way gives a hope for lovers. The way the 2 men react and understand their relationship is all because of the way they grew up. Ennis was always taught by his father to hate homosexuals, and hence he hates himself. In an incident of frustration he still feels immense pain and says "Why don't you let me be? It's because of you, Jack, that I'm like this -- nothing, and nobody." Jack, on the other hands more accepting of himself and wants whats best for both of them. The two respective wives have important characters especially Ennis’ wife, when she calls him out of the fake fishing trips. She had earlier seen the two men kissing and knew what the trips were all about. The closing scene involving a visit by Ennis to Jack's parents is heartbreaking in what is said, and not said, about their world. A look around Jack's childhood bedroom suggests what he overcame to make room for his feelings. This is a story of forbidden love marked by brilliant and amazing performances by Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal. The chemistry between the two men is impeccable and you wish you had a love like that for whom you would be ready to anything.

The film hits you like a shot in the heart and no wonder it rates as one of the best films ever made. A desperate sad story but a beautiful and moving experience. (9.5/10)

Comments

luigi43 said…
Yes ,You are right , as usual : this is THE Movie . Pity the scale arrives only to 10 !
Why my eyes are filled by tears? Heath , rest in peace.
Golu said…
I hear you Luigi. But you know, something is still missing in the films. I am still struggling to give 10/10 to that one film. I doubt I will find that anytime soon. :)
But yeah this time in second viewing, I was able to appreciate the nuances of Heath's acting a lot better.
Nemo said…
I have read your blog for years and I was surprised that this movie was not on your reviews. Everything in this movie: story line, acting, background, music... are perfect! If there is any thing I don't like, that's the ending. It's really a tragedy for those who are not dare to fight for their love. If I have a boyfriend, I would never let him go without I fight to my last breath.
Golu said…
Hi Nemo, firstly thanks for reading my blog of many years. And thats a very sweet thought from you about wanting to give your last breath for your lover. In today's fast-food day and age; its hard to find people who dare to do different for love.
Factatack said…
This film is not without flaws, but it is the "gold standard" in gay-themed cinema for more reasons than one can list. I have seen it many, many times. Every return is with the hope that this time my heart won't be broken. Is there a bigger compliment one can pay a film?
Golu said…
Wow!! Thats something!! I can relate to the sentiment, except for a different film. It doesnt take away from the fact that this film is a benchmark in itself
Unknown said…
Wow..I think I will watch the movie..but, anyone can explain to me, please..how come a gay has a wife? Do they can make love with their wife and have children? It mean,they are bisexual or not? Sorry for my question..but I really want to know..thank you
Golu said…
The film is set in times when being gay was not ok publicly, because of which you could even tell yourself that you are not ok and force yourself to have sex with a female. You may physically have sex with a female but maybe no emotional attachment. So yes, physically its possible to have a wife and kids but it eventually depends on how emotionally invested you are in the whole situation.

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